Marriage Nowadays



Getting married these days; to a decent/ beloved woman; is like trying
mounting up a hill, both the girls and girls families; thinking business-like, not any
romantic…, like used to be!

I may say that, it is a snowballing event now, disquieting most of the Egyptian
houses. I'm not talking academic, but already been through many unpleasant
experiences; most of them were either broken-up after a while, or were
unsuccessful since the very beginning.

Actually, reasons for such; varies between the families' short sights, and the girls'
narrow minds!

They would start by questioning you – if you go to propose – about your car, your
salary, how much is your account in the Bank, about your present to their
daughter, where about shall be the wedding reception….and many more
stupid demands, the least to say is squeezing / exploiting the poor proposed
young-man.

In the mean-while, the bride seems to be blessing / following her father's and
mother's steps; unintentionally aborting her chance; to be a mother and wife,
non-appreciating how hard it is, for a young man – nowadays - to dig and build-
up a career in life, plus him trying making available, each and every possible
provision, for his so called.. (Sweet half)!.

No wonder that you may bump - at the present - into bulk of girls, still maiden,
whilst they should have been – long ago - mothers and wives amongst their
families!

Magued,                                                                  Cairo, in 03/03/05